So I want to buy an apartment, right? One of the conditions of getting a loan seems to be to formally separate from my husband. He’s always been taken care of by his father, and officially has no income. The bank wants to confirm that I won’t have to pay him alimony in a divorce, which would reduce my income (and thus my ability to pay back a loan).
There may be another solution, like him writing a notarized letter renouncing any income from me. That might be quicker, dunno. He’d do that, I think.
And thinking about all that makes me very, very sad.