I think we’re more carnal, us middle-aged folks, when we are let free to roam. Maybe it’s that we know that there’s only a few years left before our backs or libido give out on us, maybe it’s just that we know what we want. Maybe it’s also that many of us have spent so many years being in long-term relationships, which are really difficult to keep sexually alive.
All that teenage confusion about sex, does he/she like me and am I pretty give way to, well, lust. Or at least it has for me.
I’m in a pickle.